Sex is one of the basic pleasures of life. And if this pleasure can be called orgasm, in a word, things get a little complicated, especially for women. Orgasm in women is as taboo a subject as it is intensely debated, and there are a lot of theories, myths, and shared opinions about the so-called “happiness pill.” In the following, we will cover both the anatomical and physiological dimensions of this phenomenon and some of the secrets and myths associated with female orgasm. Book a sexy escort girl and make her reach orgasm!
1. What is a female orgasm?
Every escort girl working with our Escort Agency is unique. Once you embrace this statement, it will be much easier to personalize and assimilate the information critically. One of the biggest challenges for every lady is to learn to know, accept and love her beauty. Your body is such a complex mechanism, so perfect, that it may not last you a lifetime to unravel all its mysteries. When it comes to exploring the intimate area, experiencing sexual pleasure, and reaching orgasm, there is so much shame and repression passed down from generation to generation that many female representatives do not get a whole life to enjoy their bodies.
The female orgasm is, therefore, directly associated with the connection she has with her body, with her self-esteem and, of course, with the quality of her relationship with her partner. Anatomically speaking, the journey to orgasm in women begins with clitoral and vaginal stimulation. There is still intense debate among specialists as to the exact definition and location of the clitoris.
The vagina, and implicitly the clitoral area of each woman, has its own anatomy. Therefore, orgasm in women is a fascinating combination of emotion, context, physical touch and abandonment. Orgasm is important for the health of the female intimate area, no less than the use of dental floss for oral health. Things are not always as simple as natural and natural as it may seem to you to enjoy your body. Before you are ready to enjoy an intimate relationship fully, it is essential to know and accept yourself in all physical and emotional aspects.
2. Specialists reveal seven truths about orgasm
2.1. Orgasm reduces pain
Whether you have a headache, stomach ache, or back pain, the first tendency is to go to bed and rest. However, sleep is not nearly as beneficial as experiencing sexual pleasure, affection, and warmth with your loved one. Female orgasm, induced directly by contact between partners or even sex toys, is like a miracle pill, which reduces all kinds of discomfort, including postpartum, post-operative, etc. This phenomenon is due to the release of oxytocin, namely the hormone of attachment, connection, and relaxation.
2.2. Condom use does not diminish sexual pleasure
Another myth about women who have an orgasm is that using a condom would in some way affect their potential to reach their peak. This is far from the case, as the last stage of pleasure is, for the most part, influenced by clitoral stimulation. Moreover, the use of this method of contraception can prolong sexual intercourse so that it also reaches this maximum level of well-being. The fact that the partner no longer has to withdraw even before ejaculation gives the woman the time and relaxation necessary to reach that level of pleasure.
2.3. It is not so easy for a woman to reach orgasm
A taboo subject, which even the ladies do not discuss much, is the difficulty of reaching orgasm. If you are facing this problem, know that you are not alone. Somewhere between 10 and 40% of women report experiencing resistance to thoroughly enjoying sexual intercourse and implicitly having an orgasm. One of the best remedies, in this case, is that, first of all, you, as a woman, should explore your body, know what you like and what bothers you, and only then guide your partner accordingly. Also, the emotional attachment, the feeling of mutual trust and connection between the two of you, is significant so that you can relax and abandon yourself entirely to pleasure.
2.4. The eternal enigma of the G-spot
We already know that the genital area is susceptible, being the organ with the most nerve endings. Every woman is unique, so getting acquainted with her own body is essential before thoroughly enjoying sexual intercourse. Specialists’ views on the G-spot are controversial, with rumours that this is just a myth. However, myth or not, one aspect that everyone agrees on is that there is no precise location of it, being the task and the challenge, at the same time, for everyone to discover it.
2.5. The frequency and quality of vaginal orgasms increase with age
Contrary to intuition, ageing has many positive aspects, not only from the perspective of maturing and gaining experience but also from the perspective of the relationship that the woman strengthens with her body. Statistics show that women between the ages of 18 and 24 experienced an orgasm in the proportion of 61%, around the age of 30 – in a ratio of 65% and, later, between the ages of 40-50 – in a proportion of 70%.
This crescendo of pleasure, with the advancement on the line of life, can be justified by the fact that they become more and more confident and comfortable in their skin, they know each other better and better, they already know what pacifies them and whatnot, and as such from the state of passivity and become more active during sexual intercourse. Therefore, experience and emotional maturation definitely speak for themselves in the degree of satisfaction and pleasure during physical contact, culminating in strong orgasms in women.
2.6. How are you doing with your self-esteem?
Studies show that the way a woman perceives her body, including the intimate area, is closely related to the level of satisfaction she experiences during sex. Therefore, the frequency, quality, or even lack of orgasm in women has its roots in its relationship with itself. Beyond medical considerations, to the question “why are there women who do not have an orgasm?”, The standard answer is that they do not feel confident enough in their beauty and attractiveness. One of the key ingredients to fully enjoy the magic of physical activity is to allow herself to enjoy her partner’s touches and relax and relax every muscle in her body.
2.7. It takes an average of 20 minutes for a woman to reach orgasm
It’s no secret that a woman needs more time to reach her peak than a man, and this is perfectly normal. Most of them take about 20 minutes to reach this threshold. Therefore, every woman should be creative and create a sensual context to relax, unwind, and connect with her partner on an intimate and profound level. Prelude is therefore significant for female orgasm. Informing yourself about the anatomy of your body, your biorhythm, and your natural cycles, but also specifically, about what orgasm means, how you can reach it, and what happens to your body in the few moments of a peak, is an essential thing.
3. Emotional foreplay – Deepens the orgasmic experience
Orgasm in women is a fascinating process of acceptance, awareness, and self-love, but it also applies to the partner.
All the early experiences from childhood, adolescence, etc., whether positive or negative, leave a strong mark on the openness and receptivity with which the woman lives her life. Orgasm is nothing but the result of self-love, connection to one’s own body, and anchoring in the “here and now.”
To fully enjoy the sexual experience, the woman must first mature. The mature one and assumed to flourish and evolve in happiness and harmony. To heal their wounds, to free themselves from fears, from conditioning, and to recognize and embrace their true radiance. Awareness and fulfilment of one’s own needs, vulnerability, sincere and open contact with one’s emotions and feelings are part of the process necessary for the wounded girl inside to receive all the understanding, support, and love she needs to support her, in turn.
Release your blockages
So, going back to orgasm and the intimate relationship with your partner, this is the faithful mirror of the relationship you have with yourself. Use all the emotions that you live with your lover, from the most negative to the most positive, to identify and release your blockages and fears kept under pressure. Please share what you feel with the other person and give him the safe and loving space to confess. Beyond the actual orgasm, the pleasure felt during sex, we all long for the connection after feeling understood and loved by the other.
Here is an emotional prelude, instrumental in connecting intimately with your partner so that the sexual act is a celebration of pleasure, authenticity, and love. The effects are so intense that they can implode so much emotion and orgasm takes you by surprise, even before it touches you. This is an exercise in which you open up and allow yourself to see your partner, trusting that he will listen to you and understand you.
Step 1
Take refuge in a place where you will not be disturbed or interrupted, such as the bedroom. Sit face to face, close to each other, but without physical contact. Look deep into your eyes for a few moments without saying anything. Even this initial stage works wonders. Maybe you will feel uncomfortable at first, and the rational mind will question the beneficial effects of exercise. Resist, keep an eye on each other, let your thoughts flow freely, and come and go until it is quiet.
Step 2
Ask your partner what he wants. Give her time to manage her emotions and find her words. After answering, repeat this question. Give him the space to express himself again, and then ask again, “My dear, what do you want?” Then reverse the roles and urge him to do the same 3 times. Say a sincere “thank you” before moving on. Thus, you can find out from each other the most hidden fantasies.
Step 3
The next step, now that you have expressed your courage and commitment, is to ask each other, “Why are you afraid?” Expressing our sincere desires, we find in ourselves enough energy to bring to the surface the most intimate fears and blockages. This exercise stage is full of emotion, so be patient and stay in the other person’s story exactly as long as he needs your support and understanding.
Step 4
The exercise’s last step is to directly ask your ground floor what they appreciate/admire about you. As with the previous questions, keep the same magic number, 3, to fill the speech with sincere compliments, gratitude, and love.
While exciting role-playing games, erotic costumes, lingerie, oriental dance or other such scenarios are highly welcome to spice up the couple’s relationship, the exercise of authenticity, unmasking, and trust are necessary to deepen a relationship.
Practice this exercise regularly because it will strengthen your confidence, bring you closer to each other, and the attraction and desire to merge will be extremely intense. Let things go naturally, don’t rush the process and allow yourself to have a different sexual experience.
Content
- What is a female orgasm?
- Specialists reveal 7 truths about orgasm
- Orgasm reduces pain
- Condom use does not diminish sexual pleasure
- It is not so easy for a woman to reach orgasm
- The eternal enigma of the G-spot
- The frequency and quality of vaginal orgasms increases with age
- How are you doing with your self-esteem?
- It takes an average of 20 minutes for a woman to reach orgasm
- Emotional foreplay – Deepens the orgasmic experience
So, don’t hesitate, to book an escort girl from our website and practice the new things that you have learned today with her. She will be more than happy to reach orgasm with you. We recommend you first try the emotional foreplay, then continue with the G-spot stimulation, after you can start having sex with her. We guarantee that your escort girl will be fully aroused after that!
